Any Virgos Out There Who Actually Let Their Guard Down for Love?
Okay, so I’ve been dating this guy for about four months now, and things are actually going really well — which is kind of freaking me out. I’m a Virgo, and I swear every time I feel myself getting too comfortable or emotionally open, I pull back or overthink things to death. It’s like this auto-pilot defense mechanism. I'm just wondering... do any other Virgos ever manage to actually relax and be vulnerable in a relationship without second-guessing everything?
I totally get what you're saying. I’m a Virgo too, and letting go of that constant “self-protection mode” took me a long time. What helped me was dating someone who didn’t push but stayed consistent. I realized that overanalyzing every moment was just exhausting, and it was okay not to have everything mapped out. Still working on it, though — it’s like unlearning a habit that feels wired into your system.