Any Virgos Out There Who Actually Let Their Guard Down for Love?

Okay, so I’ve been dating this guy for about four months now, and things are actually going really well — which is kind of freaking me out. I’m a Virgo, and I swear every time I feel myself getting too comfortable or emotionally open, I pull back or overthink things to death. It’s like this auto-pilot defense mechanism. I'm just wondering... do any other Virgos ever manage to actually relax and be vulnerable in a relationship without second-guessing everything?